Life is best for those who live it, difficult for those who analyse it and worse for those who criticise it. Our attitudes defines and determines the life we live. Laugh so hard that even sorrow smile back, live so well that even death wants to see you alive and fight so hard that fate accepts defeat.
Just because you're physically challenged doesn't make you a lesser person or make God cast you aside. It is your physical being that has been tampered with and not your abilities, so let no one refer to you as disabled because you are able. You are who you are not because of your physical ability but your inner ability.
Accept, love, appreciate and find contentment in yourself for who you are and not what others want you to be or expects of you since it is not your physicality that defines the person in you rather your personality. Look at yourself as a winner and use your challenge not as an excuse for failure but as a strength ignitor to reach for greater heights.
Any part of your body can be maimed but not your brain, so think of yourself as an exceptional being with exceptional abilities and capabilities. Never say die, remain focused never allowing any condition bar you from achieving your set gaols and objectives rather use your being to lead the life in you without relying on well wishers.
Remember you can loose any part of your body but never in your life loose faith in yourself that you can rise against all odds, reach for the stars and shine like the sun because disability ain't inability but a phase in life some of us ought to pass through with pride and dignity.