Like the sun rays through the sky, so is the dawn of a new year. |
Finally, 2015 has opened its doors, with everyone up and
about making resolutions that ideally makes no sense, trying to get straight
their goals and objectives for the year, well let’s put that aside for now as
you and I both know the essence of resolutions is as good as eroded with the
mere mention of it but one thing for sure, the year might seem heavily bounded at
starting point, one thing I see myself not doing is telling you how to live your
life coz it is never a guarantee but a blessing and gift from God as heaven for
once will never wait a day o’ two for you to realize you need to stop existing
and start living with no regret of yesterday.
The time is therefore ripe for you to strive to be a better version
of your previous self. And that’s the
more reason why this year you need to build yourself up a new with the previous
version of you in mind, ranging from the heartbreaks to the bedroom, to you and
nutrition, image and income.
It doesn’t really count whether or not you’ve rubbed
shoulders with your boss, friends and family, broken up with relations and even
divorced your partner, but one thing for sure, standing out in today’s crowded of
a competitive market place is essential. It’s however very funny how we
constantly compete for cheap attentions while the only thing that can make you
and I stand out are the same things our competitors find impossible to
duplicate: your personality.
How then do you intend to bring out and create your own unique
brand? When you’re too scared to take the risk in living your life, initiating
the fast step to move away from living under other peoples shadows, when you worship
your fellow beings coz you see yourselves inferior to them, when you allow yourself
to wallow in the miasma of self-pity because you have developed a low self-esteem
or when you’re too scared to summon our dreams ‘o light coz you’re too scared
to fail…. Tell me, how then can you create your own personal brand and let your
stars shine bright this year when you constantly forget that your personal
brand is the influence and attention you command in the image you portray, how
you look and present yourself, how you talk and relate to those around you, just
like the ingredients of your favorite liquor, are the little things that makes
you unique and valuable.
Is it not enough that you try copy pasting others characters
and life styles, while underscoring you own achievements and potentials and
constantly allowing yourself come second forgetting, that just like the best
products in our market, all of us should develop and create a unique personal
brand to engage our target audience and build brand loyalty.
Time has finally come for you to stop following trends and
become your own trend and pace setter. For you to live your life and become the
Director of your personal image; to create your own unique brand that radiates
influence, confidence, credibility and persuasive power regardless of what
haters and lovers think of you. It is time to start channeling your thoughts
towards a direction that will fully communicate the new “YOU” that you’re
looking to bring aboard in how you talk, network, and personal etiquette.
Just as like Tupac sang, “For wars come and go, but my
soldiers, they remain eternal,” so should you not allow your failures be permanent
and soldier on for greater success. The time is apt for you to remain
consistent in the way you carry out yourself at all times, from your language
to behavior and dress code.
Everyone has a future
and everyone has a story, good o’ bad but unless you find the story within the
actual story you intend to tell, will you be able to create an impact on others
and bring out this new brand you want others to relate to this year.
Opportunities they say, knock but only once, and so is 2015.
Consequently, literary package yourself from the clothes you wear to your
make-up as they visually and silently influence your audience, use the
psychology of color to enhance what you say and wear clothes that will greatly
flatter your body size.
The country is changing in all imaginary angles and so,
should you realize, make clear and understand exactly what you intend to
sacrifice and who you intend to sacrifice it for this year, for how long and if
it is worthwhile. Fully calculate what it will cost to achieve the intended
goal and choose support instead of sacrifice.
Truth is, we are similar regardless of our size or physique
as within each one of us lies a unique beauty and grace, though, finding that
beauty however, can a time prove difficult. Just like Cinderella first
recognized that her problem was not her evil step mother as it was easier for
her to hide out cleaning the house than it was to go out and find happiness. But
until that time, you and I fully realize that creating a new personal brand
needs nothing short of being ourselves, living our lives, dreaming big and
starting small because the sky, is never the limit.
Am not asking for too much I believe, but what am simply saying,
in order to fully realize yourself this year, allow yourself out of the
miserable cocoon of regrets that you embedded on yourself the previous years,
create time for yourself, relate and understand who you truly are and what
achievement you’re looking forward to. It is time you focus on the small and
simple dreams in your life. Remember, it is no sin to dream big, the only sin
is to dream and sleep on it.
2015 is therefore a year to let go your disappointments and
regrets, it is a year to stop analyzing others and start progressing your life
appreciating all the criticism that comes along, a year set to build on your
short comings and improve on your personality.
That is why, for this year, I urge you to let go yourself
and re-live your life within your dreams and goals with no regret or resolution,
just you and yourself, have fun and make the most out of it for there will
NEVER be another 2015
Happy New Year 2015
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